Neurodivergent Affirming Therapy






Neurodivergent Affirming Therapy St. Catharines & Ontario | Spencer ‘N’ Psychotherapy




Neurodivergent Affirming Therapy in St. Catharines & Across Ontario

Stop fighting your brain. Start working with it.


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Do you often feel like everyone else received a “manual” for life that you never got? Do you find yourself exhausted from trying to fit into expectations that don’t feel natural to you?

If you have spent years being told you are “too sensitive,” “lazy,” or “just need to try harder,” you aren’t alone—and you aren’t broken. You might be navigating a world not built for your brain.

At Spencer ‘N’ Psychotherapy, I provide Neurodivergent Affirming Therapy. This means I don’t view your neurodivergence (ADHD, Autism, or AuDHD) as a pathology to be cured. Instead, we look at it as a unique neurotype that deserves understanding, accommodation, and celebration.

What is Neurodivergent Affirming Therapy?

Many traditional therapy models focus on “fixing” behaviors to make a person appear more “normal.” For neurodivergent folks, this often leads to masking—suppressing your true self to fit in—which is a direct path to burnout, anxiety, and deep feelings of “stuckness.”

My approach is different. I offer a safe, non-judgmental space where we explore how your brain processes the world. Whether you are formally diagnosed, self-diagnosed, or just questioning, you are welcome here.

We Focus On:


  • Unmasking: Learning who you are beneath the layers of social expectations.

  • Executive Function: Finding systems for “stuckness,” procrastination, and overwhelm that actually work for your brain.

  • Sensory Needs: Understanding your sensory profile to reduce overstimulation and burnout.

  • Self-Advocacy: Learning how to ask for what you need in relationships and at work.

Who I Work With

I work with adults and youth in St. Catharines (In-Person) and throughout Ontario (Online).

ADHD

ADHD isn’t just about being “distracted.” It can look like paralysis when trying to start a task, intense rejection sensitivity (RSD), or a mind that never quiets down. We work together to move from shame to understanding.

Autism & AuDHD

If you struggle with social burnout, sensory processing, or feeling misunderstood, this is a space to process without “performing” neurotypicality. I frequently work with AuDHD, exploring the dynamic of craving routine while seeking novelty.

Queer & Neurodivergent

As a Queer-affirming therapist, I understand the intersection. You don’t need to explain your gender or your sensory needs. This is a safe space to bring your whole self.

Moving Through “Stuckness”

A common theme for neurodivergent folks is the feeling of being stuck—stuck in a career that doesn’t fit, stuck in burnout, or stuck in shame spirals.

Because I specialize in helping people navigate uncertainty and unfulfillment, my goal is to help you break free from the “stuckness” not by forcing yourself to be someone else, but by leaning into your strengths.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need a formal diagnosis to see you?



No. Self-diagnosis is valid in the neurodivergent community, and formal assessments can be expensive and inaccessible. We treat the symptoms and the lived experience, not the label.
Is this behavioral therapy?



No. I do not use ABA or compliance-based approaches. My practice is trauma-informed, anti-oppressive, and centered on your autonomy.
Do you offer virtual sessions?



Yes! I know that leaving the house can sometimes be a barrier. I offer secure video therapy to anyone residing in Ontario. For those in the Niagara Region, my St. Catharines office (Queen St.) offers a calm, welcoming environment.

Ready to find clarity?

You don’t have to navigate this alone. If you are looking for a therapist who “gets it,” let’s connect.


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